The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
The end of a relationship is not always a failure. Sometimes all the love in the world is not enough to save something. In these cases, it is not a matter of fault from either person. Some things cannot be, it’s as simple as that. “There is no real ending. It’s just the place where you stop the story.”
Look out for the following warning signs which indicate, your relationship has come to an abrupt end.
1.Your partner is neglectful
Spending more time with friends and not responding to phone calls – these are all signs your partner is not very into it.
Someone who truly cares has you foremost in their mind, and will not neglect you.
2. Waiting for a “yes”
You know a relationship needs to end when you ask “that” question – the most important of all.
And then you are left waiting for the answer.
3. When you feel better alone
They are starting to bring you down or make you feel trapped in everyday life.
Sometimes the “us” is devouring the “me”, and you end up craving time alone.
4.You think you are a better person without them
When two people are unhappy together, they bring out the worst sides of each other.
No one likes being their worst self, so resentment ends up developing too.
If you think you are a better person without them, you probably are – time for an honest conversation.
Not everyone deals with their unhappiness head-on in a way that minimises the hurt to the other person.
People can become contemptful of others, make unkind jokes and be “more mean than nice”.
6. You can already imagine life without them
If you are doing this, chances are you are not happy. Rather than imagine that life, make it happen before everybody gets hurt
7. When you come home and find your partner sleeping with someone else
This probably needs little explanation. Trust is key.
8. When you thought the question “should I end this relationship?”
As someone else commented – the moment you are asking this question, you are “already halfway there.”
Giving up doesn’t always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”